Do you ever feel like you're impatient with the person who has Alzheimer's disease or with the disease itself? If you do, you are not alone and the feeling of impatience can lead to a lot of suffering. If we're being honest with ourselves, there are so many reasons to be impatient when we are dealing with this disease day in and day out. There are the never ending repetitive questions, or stories, the misplaced items, the emotional ups and downs, the layers of clothes, the hoarding, the pacing, the lack of understanding, the struggles over personal hygiene… the list goes on and on.A light bulb went on for me the other day when I read that impatience is a sign that your needs are not being met. I'd never really thought about it like that before and so I started to pay attention to the times that I felt impatient. Sure enough, there was a pattern, and it was usually because I felt my needs weren't being met. It is no wonder that people dealing with dementia have impatience as there constant companion!
Recognizing our needs are not being met, begs the question: How then do we get our needs met? I think the fair response is somewhere other than from the person that has the disease. It is impossible to expect that they can meet our needs and unless we change our expectations we will continue to struggle and feel impatient. Without this shift we will continue the impatience, guilt and further impatience cycle. In this scenario, nobodies needs are getting met.
In a previous post, Chose to Practice Patience with Alzheimer's Disease, I described how you can chose to be more patient with the disease. I don't think I did the topic justice! I think it's much more constructive to recognize the feeling of impatience as an opportunity to look inward and explore our feelings of impatience and our expectations. The important thing is to recognize we're feeling impatient, and let it pass on through. The biggest challenge is to not beat ourselves up over it, and just accept it and observe it like a third party. The very act of doing that will transform the impatience and we may even get a chuckle out of it.
How have you handled impatience with Alzheimer's disease? Do you believe it's a sign that your needs are not being met?
For those people whose relative are suffering from Alzheimer’s Disease and maybe reading this, I find it hard that people are still ignorant of herbal medicine when it comes to treating Alzheimer’s Disease.
ReplyDeleteI have been through many phases over the last couple of years since my father's diagnosis, he was 53 years old and had Early Onset Alzheimer’s Disease and his diagnosis changed my life in many ways, I spend most of the time in denial and I keep thinking the tests were wrong. But deep down I knew they were correct. Though sharing his story is very difficult. He was always very successful in being able to accomplish anything he set his mind on doing. Alzheimer’s is a bitch of a disease. It began by robbing his recent memory, but it didn't stop there. It continues to steal, taking the most recent memories until it has pilfered all but the oldest memories, he experienced a decline in his ability to think, remember and make decisions. I feel a need to express my thoughts and feelings about how it affected his day to day living and how its deteriorated since despite the help of some wonderful medics and medicine.
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In my own case it was just over four years ago when my Mum began to sound different on the phone. She lived back East with my siblings and my husband and I were living on the West coast and in phone calls it became apparent that my Mum's voice no longer had the same tones of excitement and humor that she used to; and instead it was very flat. At the same time she began to tell us about a situation at work that just didn't seem possible; she was complaining that a group of fellow workers were conspiring to get her. Although Mum had much academic success as a teenager, her behavior had become increasingly odd during the past years. She quit seeing her friends and no longer seemed to care about her appearance or social pursuits. She began wearing the same clothes each day and seldom bathed. She lived with several family members but rarely spoke to any of us. Obviously this whole story seemed very unbelievable and we sensed something was wrong but had no clue as to what it could be. We recommended that my Mum quit her job and look for something else - as we began to wonder if she had a "mental breakdown" and would get better once out of the stressful job situation.
ReplyDeleteIn the case of Mum, she was having persecurtory delusions, auditory hallucinations and negative symptoms that had lasted for at least Three years. All of these symptoms fit with a diagnosis of Dementia. Her story reflects a common case, in which a high-functioning young adult goes through a major decline in day-to-day skills. Although family and friends may feel this is a loss of the person they knew, the illness can be treated and a good outcome is possible as it all got better when we started using a herbal medicine for her through Aparajita.
My recommendation to people who are either wondering if they have DEmentia or wondering if a friend or loved one has Dementia should contact aparajitatan@gmail.com. I think one of our key problems was that we didn't do this in the early days of my Mum's illness as we never thought of a natural alternative for her.
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